Note: I'm reposting this, updated, from 2014. Still rings true to me.
Card Making and SAT scores
I read this and winced.
We all wince when we recognize that feeling -- failure is hard. It is even harder when you have no idea why you are being rejected. No one posts a comment that says "no focal point" "messy layers" "too many colors". We are nice to each other in internet land, and that is as it should be. So it is hard to learn unless we are willing to ask. Asking means taking a risk.
However, once I did ask.
It was the practice in my high school to go to the principal and share your SAT scores with her. I knocked on Sr. Ellen's door and walked in. My scores were mediocre, and I was unhappy, particularly since I was a strong student in an academically rigorous high school. I wanted to know why my scores weren't higher. Not skipping a beat, Sr. Ellen looked me in the eye and told me that I wasn't very smart -- that my good grades were the result of my hard work, not my native intelligence. She did not say this with admiration -- almost pity.
So here's my message to the stamper who feels the stun of rejection or failure. Maybe you are like I am. I've never been the best in the room at anything I've ever tried. I've always been surrounded by better lawyers, better cooks, better housekeepers. I'm not the star anything.
So, if you can find it in yourself to enjoy stamping without that definition of "winning," pick up that ink pad and stamp. And relax and enjoy it. Smile. And smile again and again, knowing that you are doing something you enjoy. And if you still yearn to do design work, ask yourself why and if you are happy with the answer, change things up. Reach out and ask folks for ideas on how to improve.
You be the judge on who the winner is in that competition.